Never miss your friends’ birthdays.

Ready for your agents.

Email reminders before every birthday (and anniversary), wishlists so gifts land right, and your AI agent keeps it all private. Free.

Pick your link

This is yours for good. Friends find you here.

When’s your birthday?

Year optional. Only the day shows on your page.

Where should we send reminders?

We’ll email you a sign-in link. No password.

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Start with your own birthday. That’s it.

How it works

  1. 1Claim your linkPick a username and add your birthday. That’s your page: one link and a QR code for your birthday and wishlist.
  2. 2Add your peopleType a few, paste a list, or connect with friends who already have a page. They don’t need an account to be on your list.
  3. 3Get a heads-upA calm email before each birthday (anniversaries too, if you add them), at 8am your time. Never more than one email a day.

Everything a birthday needs

Add people in a minute

Paste a messy list like “Mom Mar 3, Mike 6/14”. Or pull in a CSV or your calendar, or share one private link and let them add themselves.

Reminders that arrive

A digest on the 1st of the month by default. Opt in to Monday heads-ups, a week before, the day before and the day of. Or subscribe from your calendar app.

Upcoming birthdays dashboard: today, this week and this month, with a Send wish button next to each person

Your birthday page

One link and a QR code for your birthday and wishlist. It shows your name and the day, never your email or birth year.

A public birthday page showing a name, birthday, Connect and Add to my calendar buttons, and a wishlist

Wishlists, no doubles

Add what you’d love, your sizes and your no-thanks. Friends quietly reserve a gift so nobody buys the same thing twice.

A wall of birthday wishes

Greetings you approve show on your page for everyone you share it with.

Wishlist items with Claim gift buttons, and a greetings wall with an approved birthday message

Greetings you approve

Friends you’re connected with can leave a greeting on your page or send one privately. Nothing shows until you approve it.

Inbox with a new greeting waiting, and buttons to add it to the wall, keep it private, decline or delete

Connect, don’t scrape

Connect with friends by request, and your birthdays stay in sync. There’s no directory and no search: people need your exact link, and your page never shows your email or birth year.

A connect request from a friend with Accept, Ignore and Block buttons

Birthday treats from places you love

Off by default. Scan a QR code at a shop you love to connect it, and get its birthday offer in your inbox. Places never see your birth date or email.

Birthday offers settings: an opt-in toggle and a connected coffee shop offering a free birthday drink

Your agent remembers

Connect Claude, ChatGPT or Cursor over MCP. It can look up dates, wishlists and favorite coffee, and draft a wish. It sees only what you allow, and it never sends for you.

Agents settings with the MCP server link, a Copy button and a ready-to-paste config

Open source, host your own

birthdaycalendar.si runs the same MIT-licensed server you can host yourself. No ads, no trackers, and your data exports in one click.

Run your own